There is a growing shift toward "intentional" marriage. Many women now prioritize completing higher education and establishing careers before settling down, leading to a rise in the average marriage age to over 30. Romantic Storylines in Literature and Folklore

Because public displays of affection are culturally discouraged and sometimes actively suppressed, dating often involves "gallivanting" in secret, always watchful for a hamsaye (neighbor) who might report the meeting to family.

In Kashmir, love gets caged, a lock is put on it: Mehak Jamal - Frontline