Many find that lying on their side (Spoons) or on their stomach with a pillow under the hips allows for better control and depth management. 5. Essential Safety Tips

Use them to prevent STIs and to make cleanup easier.

Take a warm bath or use a heating pad to relax the pelvic muscles.

Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating and consists of two main muscle rings: the internal and external sphincters.

There is a difference between "fullness" (which is normal) and "sharp pain." If it hurts, stop, add more lube, and retract. 6. Aftercare

The "one-third rule" is helpful—insert only a small portion, wait for the muscles to adjust, then proceed.

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You want these muscles to relax. If you force anything, the muscles will tighten instinctively, leading to discomfort or small tears (fissures).