Losing A Forbidden Flower ((link)) Site

When you lose something the world didn't want you to have, the mourning process is complicated by three specific factors:

Often, the survivor of this loss feels they "deserved" the pain for reaching for the forbidden fruit to begin with. This self-judgment creates a barrier to self-compassion. Tending to the Empty Space Losing A Forbidden Flower

Unlike the loss of something socially sanctioned, losing a forbidden flower is a "disenfranchised grief"—a sorrow that feels like it has no place to go because the world never knew you held the flower in the first place. The Allure of the Forbidden When you lose something the world didn't want